Life is serendipitous sometimes.
Last Friday the 13th was the one month anniversary of my father’s funeral.
I was doing some work for a client and was sifting through their “hidden posts” on their Facebook fan page. The hidden posts area is the place where Facebook sends wall messages they think are spam. I got to thinking, hmmm, I should probably check mine too. It’s been a while!
Lo and behold, I found a random act of kindness for someone I’ve never met. It was a poem from Martin at AnitaPoems.com. AnitaPoems was inspired by his wife (Anita, of course!) and he write poems for all sorts of occassions.
The thing about this poem was that it was posted nearly two weeks before I even saw it.
It was about my Dad.
I thought I’d share it with you.
My Father
My head hangs low,
I’m somber and sad.
For the loss of my dear,
and most loving dad.My thoughts and feelings,
are so hard to explain.
Multiplied by infinity,
my sorrow and pain.My father worked hard,
was the most wonderful guy.
I cannot come to terms,
to let go and say bye.Since I was young,
he brought joy to each day.
Loved us unconditionally,
and would openly display.I’ll miss him so much,
my tears say it all.
As a wake in the night,
his name I shall call.As my precious father,
and my guiding light.
Having him in my life,
was a fortunate delight.He lived life,
with honor and grace.
But now he must rest,
in a much better place.
Now, I’m not the first person he’s done this for. I remember tweeting a post Danielle from Extraordinary Mommy wrote a while ago about Martin writing her a poem. Strange enough, at the time, he had written one for me too.
I just didn’t know it yet.
I believe I was meant to find this poem on the one-month anniversary of my dad’s funeral. It warmed my heart up just a bit on a cold, cold day.
Thank you so much, Martin. Your words really mean so much to me.






































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I think you’re right about the timing. We cannot always explain it, but sometimes things do happen when we need them the most. Sending big hugs and prayers your way.
That is so sweet of you Melissa! The poem really reflects what you feel inside. I like the last part of the poem wherein he lived his life but he must take his final rest. It’s kind of sad but it’s all part of life. We are all gonna die too. What do you offer to your dad during his death anniversary?
It pains my heart to read this but great post, I must say!
-Celeste
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That’s such a sweet poem, Melissa. Random acts of kindness are what remind me of the good in humanity, that we are all (really) in this together, feeling each others’ joys, pains, and grief. Thank you for sharing this.
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January 20, 2012 at 9:30 am
Wow. The kindness and beauty of this act restores my faith in humanity. What a tribute and what a piece to look back on when you’re feeling those grief pangs. Bravo Martin! Hope you’re doing good Mel!
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January 20, 2012 at 3:24 pm
Ah. So beautiful. I wish that we would all do kind things like this for each other every day!
Ohhh, I love this poem Melissa. This is what I exactly feel as my father passed away. I can’t explain how painful it is… Until now, I remember him as if it only happens yesterday. I never ended the day not remembering my beloved father.
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This is so lovely! The feelings are clearly emphasized in this poem. Thanks for sharing this…
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Wow. So glad you found when you did. It has been almost 30 years now since my father passed, and I still miss him so. He was born on a friday the 13th, but November. Hugs to you.
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This poem made me cry.. I miss my dad. Thanks you for this poem and please let me copy this. I really love it.
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