Sunday, SUNDAY, Sunday… I Learned There Are Still Good People Out There

by melissa on September 2, 2010 · 43 comments

This past Sunday started off frantic but wonderful. The hubs and I were getting the kids dressed and properly groomed for a picture session at Portrait Innovations. It was hectic trying to get everyone put together, fed, changed and in the car for a 20 minute drive from our side of Raleigh to Cary.. and to actually be punctual. We seemed to leave at the perfect time.

You won’t be surprised that there’s nothing I love more than a beautifully composed photograph. And for the “mall”- type studio chains, Portrait Innovations has always been my fave.

Fast forward… we get the pictures taken, grab lunch while they were getting printed and then went back to pick them up before heading back home to continue with our lazy Sunday.

I proudly clutched the envelope of pictures in my hands as I hopped back in my hubby’s car to start looking through them, mentally checking off who’s going to get which pose, like one of these beauties:

As I was looking through the pictures, Daddy Roo starts saying the car didn’t feel right.

It started shaking a bit… and just as we merged onto the highway it got worse.

“Pull over right here while we still have a shoulder!” I told him with a hint of panic in my voice. I sure as hell didn’t want to be merging onto highway traffic with two kids in a car and take the risk that the car dies five seconds down the road.

He turned the car off and we just kinda sat there. We weren’t sure exactly WHAT to do. We didn’t have AAA so Daddy Roo called our insurance company and they rattled off a few towing companies.

The BIGGER issue was how to get 2 adults and 2 kids with car seats from point A to point B.

I started running through people in my head. H? Out of town. L? Camping. T? She didn’t answer. And so I did what any social media addicted, oversharing person would do…

I posted that we were stranded.

Good people, part one…

Within seconds a fellow mom came to the rescue, becoming the first person in the “wow- people ARE still good” moments of the day. Donna and I had met before a few times in real life. And she’s really good friends with my neighbor. But I honestly don’t know her well enough that I’d know things like her favorite color of Skittles or her first childhood pet.

I knew she was pretty awesome though. I just didn’t know she was THIS awesome. In minutes, she sent me her phone number, I called her and she and her daughter were on their merry way to selflessly come rescue us.

Good people, part two…

The car was dang hot so we unstrapped the kids and stood there on the side of the flippin’ road. We blocked Big Roo in between the open car door and us… I mean, you really just can’t take any chances when cars zoom past 65 MPH. Poor Little Roo hadn’t eaten in a few hours so I know he was getting hungry. His face was flushed from the heat but he remained calm as I held both him and an umbrella over our heads.

It wasn’t raining… it was sunny with a heat index of about 99.

As we stood there, all dressed up in the blazing sun, people would pull over to see if we needed help. Not one car, not two cars but all-in-all we had about EIGHT cars stop to check on us. I was really impressed since it wasn’t exactly the safest place to pull off the road.

But kindness and concern for a young family reigned. And I was grateful.

Good people, part three…

The tow truck arrived and I quickly forgot all the stereotypes about rude tow truck guys. This guy was AWESOME.

The first thing he did was tell Daddy Roo to bring the kids and I over to sit in his air-conditioned tow truck while Daddy Roo filled out the paperwork. We shuffled alongside the truck and climbed in. He gave Big Roo some business cards because they had “cool trucks” on them.

Big Roo’s face lit up when I told him the tow truck we were in was JUST LIKE MATER.

Donna arrived shortly thereafter and they installed the car seats in her car for the ride home.

All the while, the Roos and I stayed cool in the truck. Knowing Little Roo was hungry, I took it upon myself to nurse the baby from the front seat. I bet you can’t say you’ve ever done THAT (except you Brittany).

Meanwhile, Daddy Roo walked over and brought us some bottles of water in a plastic bag.

“Where did these come from?” I asked.

He said, “A couple saw us on the side of the road and noticed we had young kids with us. They went and bought us some waters and dropped them off.”

All together now… awwwwww.

It’s All Good (Well, Except for the Pocketbooks. Audis are Expensive to Fix.)

During the course of events that day, I thought of the show What Would You Do? While they deal more with ethical scenarios, the premise is the same. What would you do if you saw someone who was in distress, hurt, frightened or worse?

Apparently around Raleigh, NC, we’ve got good people.

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1 Losing Brownies
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September 3, 2010 at 12:10 am

That is an amazing story! People really do surprise me sometimes. I don’t know if I could say the same for people in Phoenix, but I could be wrong!

On a different note, I love Picture Innovations. We had The Boy’s pictures taken there and they turned out amazing.

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2 melissa September 7, 2010 at 11:15 pm

Aren’t they great? I made the mistake of going somewhere else last time and regretted it!

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3 Jeanie September 3, 2010 at 12:26 am

Thanks for sharing a great story. It really is nice to read about the goodness in people these days.

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4 Jayme
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September 3, 2010 at 6:31 am

Aww… that is an awesome story, Mel. :) It’s really amazing what good things social media can do.

I’d have to say too that your calmness in dealing with the situation helped you attract good people to come by and help you. Being stranded on the side of the road is not a good situation to be in. But when you expect good things to happen, they will!

Anyway, I dropped by from the 31dbbb feed. Have a happy weekend ahead! :)
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5 Tina @ Life Without Pink September 3, 2010 at 7:07 am

This is so awesome to hear! I know today, most people are afraid to help but its great to hear your story!

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6 Stacey @ Tree, Root, and Twig
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September 3, 2010 at 8:21 am

First of all – CUTE picture!! :)

Second – while it’s not “awesome” what happened to you, the way people stepped up to help truly is. Sometimes I think we’re put through struggles to teach us – and others around us – what we’re truly made of. In this case, it’s a whole lotta goodness. :)
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7 Blair@HeirtoBlair
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September 3, 2010 at 8:52 am

this makes me love people.
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8 Andrea (Lil-Kid-Things)
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September 3, 2010 at 9:08 am

Wow that is really impressive! Yay Raleigh! And I am glad you all stayed safe!
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9 Stacy of KSW
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September 3, 2010 at 11:06 am

Whoa, what a day. I often worry about what I would do if I broke down with the kids. Honestly, I would have never thought of social media to look for rescuers. What a wonderful community of folks we have, glad to know someone was watching out for you guys

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10 Tanisha September 3, 2010 at 11:11 am

This is such a fantastic post! The picture from PI is the cutest!!! I am really glad that you were able to receive so much help. This post got me a little teary eyed. Wonderful people were paying it forward. I am really glad that you and your family are safe. Hooray for Donna! Hooray for the “tow truck guy”! Hooray for everyone that stopped to see if you needed help and hooray for the wonderful people that dropped off the bottled water!

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11 MonicaFernaays
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September 3, 2010 at 12:26 pm

First thing…Glad to hear you are all ok! Secondly…the picture is so adorable, and would have to say that the days events, were worth it!! Just another adventure in life!!

It was heart warming to hear all of the nice things people did for you all, that is just plain AWESOME!
Have a great holiday weekend!!

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12 melissa September 8, 2010 at 10:57 pm

I know people are great, aren’t they?

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13 Eve
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September 3, 2010 at 1:05 pm

Wow what a great story! So great to read a story like this when there’s so much negativity in the world nowadays. Glad you were able to get the help you needed and everyone was safe. BTW…Very cute pic of the kids!
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14 Sharina September 3, 2010 at 1:13 pm

Love this, what a great story! Its nice to hear that there really are good people still left in the world….sometimes I wonder :) I don’t know about out here in Chicago, but I have to admit the majority of people I meet are pretty awesome.

Hopping over from blogfrog, and am now your newest follower. Hope you stop by and visit me soon!
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15 Melissa (Confessions of a Dr.Mom)
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September 3, 2010 at 3:14 pm

What a wonderful story. Sorry about your car and getting stranded but wow…amazing people. Always nice to get confirmation that people still care about each other. So glad you and your family got the support and help you needed :)
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16 Audra
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September 3, 2010 at 6:11 pm

That brought tears to my eyes! What amazing kindness.

One Sunday, our pastor wanted to make a point. He had a gal from the church stage a break-down in a parking lot at a fairly busy intersection on the way to the church. Right before each service started, she texted how many people came to her rescue and how many were from the church. It was convicting to think that we didn’t even SEE her let alone stop and offer to help.

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17 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:00 pm

Wow- what a test. It definitely made me think about the good things (or lack of) that I do for people. Have to find a way to pay it forward!

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18 Eliane Filho
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September 3, 2010 at 11:33 pm

Hello I found you on the The Secret to Success is Support Community
on blog frog .. I loved your blog Specially the Camping List :)

I will come back to read some more later…

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19 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:04 pm

Thanks for the kinds words. Hopefully the camping list will come in handy this fall!

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20 Melisa
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September 4, 2010 at 11:36 am

Don’t know how I missed this post!

First, what a scary situation to be in, especially on the side of a highway. But I am impressed by the outcome. I have to hope that if something like that happened to me here in Georgia, folks would step up.
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21 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:04 pm

Georgians are pretty nice too. I’m sure they’d step up. :-)

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22 Roy Scribner
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September 4, 2010 at 2:39 pm

People are awesome! I always love to hear these stories – it just shows that no matter what kind of situation you find yourself in, something good can come from it.
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23 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:05 pm

Exactly. I felt a bit helpless in the beginning and I’m not one to ask for help that often. But obviously I needed it this time and people came through with flying colors!

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24 Rachael
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September 5, 2010 at 12:46 am

I choose to walk through life with an attitude that most people are good, that evil is not prominent and bad things are not as common as the news makes it seem. It’s stories like this that remind me that I am right.

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25 WeeMasonMan's Mom September 5, 2010 at 11:31 pm

Wow, that is so awesome! I’m glad a crappy situation turned into a feel good reminder that not all people suck!
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26 Anastasia September 6, 2010 at 8:36 am

This made me a little teary eyed. I’m glad you experienced such great people.

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27 Jessica September 6, 2010 at 10:42 am

Love the pictures! And, I am glad that you guys got out okay. I am also surprised when total strangers help me out. I don’t know if it is because I have become disillusioned with the good of humankind or because I sometimes I wondered if I could be “that human being,” who in the midst of attending to the “very important” details of my own life, shows little compassion to others.

-Jessica

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28 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:06 pm

I’m always surprised too. It made me more aware of how I help others and ways that I can pay it forward!

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29 Anne September 6, 2010 at 2:06 pm

Wow….what a story. Funny how Social Media works. I needed help when the rain was flooding our backyards and I posted something and got help. Love your story. It was very touching…..Love the picture too….how adorable.
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30 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:07 pm

That’s great! Yep I was pretty happy to get help via SM. I wasn’t sure what to expect but loved how it turned out!

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31 Kimmi aka TMWW
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September 6, 2010 at 2:14 pm

This reminds me of the time we were stranded in North Carolina on our way home to Virginia from visiting friends. The alternator went out on our car. We had no money for a hotel or a replacement alternator. I just sat and cried, didn’t know what to do. This lovely couple pulled over to help us. They took us home, his wife and I cooked dinner while the guys went to the auto part store and bought the alternator we needed and installed it. They paid for everything. All they asked is that we did the same for someone else. I have never forgotten those wonderful angels who helped us that day…and I pray that God smiles down upon them always.
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32 melissa September 7, 2010 at 9:12 am

Wow- I’m so touched by that story! It’s truly amazing the ways that people give to those they don’t even know. I bet they weren’t rich people either, just good people.

Thanks for sharing your story- definitely brought a tear to my eye!

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33 Kimmi aka TMWW
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September 7, 2010 at 8:04 pm

Me too. I could not believe that total strangers would spend upwards of $100 in addition to feeding and sheltering a couple and a young child (my daughter was still small at the time) and not ask for anything in return. Still brings a tear to my eye as well every time I think about those wonderful people.
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34 Jenni September 7, 2010 at 1:10 am

That picture is OMG CUTE!

And what a great story! There are good people out there! It’s sad that there are some days that we feel they are few and far between.

So sorry for the rough end to your Sunday, but it’s great that you found so many people who care!
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35 Molly Gold September 7, 2010 at 9:21 am

You never know how people will react when they see someone in need. This is such a great story about how selfless people can be just when you need it most. As parents, we so hope our learn children will grow to learn how to discern how important it is to help others, general safety in mind, in any way they can. Looks like you met a lot of people who learned that lesson well =)

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36 melissa September 8, 2010 at 11:08 pm

So true Molly. I look forward to the next time I’m on the “other side” of a similar situation so I can pay it forward.

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37 Andrea
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September 7, 2010 at 9:29 am

The power of Twitter. An incredible thing, indeed.

It’s true what they say, sometimes the littlest gestures (though these were big ones!) are amazing enough to change ones perspective on things. And the importance of sharing the experience, AND paying it forward are absolutely true, too. :)
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38 Sherri
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September 7, 2010 at 12:09 pm

I love that you found not just one, but MANY awesome people! Now that whole breastfeeding-in-the-tow-truck tweet makes perfect sense…
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39 Missy @ Wonder, Friend
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September 8, 2010 at 6:02 pm

It’s always nice to see (and read about) proof that people aren’t so bad, after all. What an uplifting story. I’m sorry you had car trouble – that’s never good. Hope the repairs aren’t too horrible on the bank account!
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40 Merry120
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September 9, 2010 at 11:31 pm

Such a great post! I’m glad to see that good helpful people do still exist!

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41 suzanne @ pretty*swell
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September 10, 2010 at 9:55 pm

Reading this restores my faith in humanity. Just an incredible story!
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