Letting Go of Fear in the Blogosphere (aka Here’s What I’m Launching on Monday)

by melissa on August 1, 2010 · 20 comments

I’m a planner. I actually started researching and compiling ideas, designs, mind maps, plans and more MONTHS before this blog ever launched. Compulsive? Maybe.

But really it was fear.

I was afraid to take the plunge into the blogging world… would anyone read it? Would I be a good enough writer? Would people leave me nasty comments (I’m the thin-skinned wonder)? Would my visitors ever return? Would anyone CARE?

Yet that’s me. I over-think. I over-analyze. I’ve spent 10 years in marketing communications within the corporate world and most of it was writing, designing or editing. But THIS. This was different. It would truly be my own words, not ones that have to comply with a branding manual or get approval from overzealous board members.

After a cloud of self-doubt (and questioning my sanity on the timing since I was pregnant with my second child AND working full-time), I started this blog anyway. My finger hovered over the mouse and…

I hit publish. And catapulted into a world that six months later I can’t even imagine not being in.

I’m getting to the point of this post, I promise

So when I was noodling my ideas for this new series I wanted to do, I started down the same path.

Over-think. Over-analyze. Over-doubt.

But this time, I got a twitch that wanted me to “hurry up already!” (Similar to the “hurry up already” you tell your kids.)

A twitch I credit to The SITS Girls and The Blog Frog hosting the 31 Days to Become a Better Blogger challenge with Darren from ProBlogger. The challenge has gotten me so riled up… so inspired… that I’m kicking all those “overs” out on their hineys.

Tomorrow, I’m starting this new series called Momcomm Monday.

So what IS Momcomm?

In the marketing world, marketing communication is known as marcom (or marcomm).Momcomm stands for mom communication.

Momcomm Monday is my new weekly feature that helps moms become better writers. Better bloggers. Even better social media geeks. All with the goal of helping you communicate better in the so-called blogosphere. (Mom isn’t meant to be exclusionary though; “anybloggercomm” just didn’t roll off the tongue.)

Good communication isn’t just resume fodder. Before your eyes glaze over, let me explain.

In the face-to-face world, only 10% of how we communicate is through words. Another 30% by our sounds and a whopping 60% by body language.

But here in bloggyland, we’re on the Internet. We don’t have body language or sounds (unless you count vlogging or auto-playing music). Our voice has to be heard from that mere TEN FLIPPIN PERCENT!

What the heck are we supposed to do?

Well, for starters, our writing has to be top notch. Our blog design has to look professional. Communicating to others – sharing our blog posts, writing comments, reaching out to PR companies, chatting on twitter – it all makes an impression about who we are and what our blog is about.

MomComm Monday will be a mix of how-to’s, resources, tips, rants and more. Some basic, some advanced and some straight down the middle.

Back to that whole planner-in-me thing…

I don’t know where this Momcomm stuff is gonna go but believe it or not, I’m OK with not having it all worked out. And I’m not worried that it’s not about the outdoors because my blog has already morphed from that and become an all-emcompassing look at me.

Maybe it’ll grow into its own blog. Maybe it won’t (I may need calendar ninjas to extend our days to 28 hours). For now, I’m just gonna go with the flow (words that rarely come out of my mouth) and see where it leads.

Oh, and if you read this entire kinda, sorta longwinded and rambling post, you deserve a prize. How about the title of tomorrow’s post, will that work?

How to Improve Your Writing (Without Improving Your Writing)

See you tomorrow!

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1 Barb
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August 1, 2010 at 7:27 am

Visiting from #31dbbb! Looking forward to your launch tomorrow! Following to keep in touch. :)

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2 Sherri
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August 1, 2010 at 11:34 am

How cool, and best of luck! Will stop by tomorrow and check it out…
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3 Kittie Walker August 1, 2010 at 12:06 pm

You persuaded me I’ll be back tomorrow : )

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4 Brittany at Mommy Words
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August 1, 2010 at 1:09 pm

Sounds awesomw I’ll be back and more wordy when not nursing! Great job!
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5 Geek.Girl.Wife August 1, 2010 at 1:19 pm

I love the momcomm idea! I am not a mom, but would love to be in on it! I can’t wait for you to launch this!
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6 Heligirl
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August 1, 2010 at 1:35 pm

Love this idea. Marcom is my day job, so I particularly like the twist on that term. Very cool. I’m bookmarking so I can check in. And if you ever need a guest poster for this series, don’t hesitate to shout. Like I said, that’s my day job. I’m the PR manager for an aviation company.

Looking forward to tomorrow’s post. :)

Jen (aka Heligirl)
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7 Eileen Ludwig
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August 1, 2010 at 6:27 pm

Love this. Very nice. Shows the conversations we have in our heads. Shows letting go. Leap of Faith. Click. You are published. It is a great feeling to be published.

Not having to go through gatekeepers who keep you from your own good, it a joyous feeling. Publishing books or ebooks without a publishing company. If they sell, great. If they don’t, is it the marketing or content.

When I look at items on the Internet that have gone viral, it was word of mouth. Susan Boyle. Now that is the impact we all want. Enjoy the climb. Enjoy the ride.

Eileen
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8 jen :)
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August 1, 2010 at 6:41 pm

I’m in – I’ll be back bright and early tomorrow morning! Being a not-so-wonderful *words* girl, I figure I’m going to need all the help you can give me! Hasta manana..

jen :)

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9 Melisa
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August 1, 2010 at 6:44 pm

Very cool and I know I need all the help I can get! Can’t wait to read the advice and get my blog butt in gear.

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10 Alana Morales, Author Domestically Challenged
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August 1, 2010 at 6:59 pm

GREAT idea – can’t wait to see where the idea takes you. FAB blog design btw!

Popping in from SITS/31DBBB.

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11 Andrea
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August 1, 2010 at 7:06 pm

Sounds cool. Good luck w. it, Mama! :>
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12 Sarafree August 1, 2010 at 8:21 pm

Sounds like topic I’d certainly be interested in! Oh I’d love to learn some proper grammar techniques. I’ll be checking back on this series.

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13 Stacy of KSW
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August 3, 2010 at 6:59 pm

Yay!! I love your idea for Momcomm Mondays almost as much as I love the name. I know what you mean about your blog morphing, mine is going through a bit of a change as well. Less about what others want and more about ME. I’m scared, excited and giddy all at the same time. Glad we’re going through this stage together. Oh yeah & I’m going to shoot you an email. I’d love your opinion on some things I’m working on
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14 melissa August 4, 2010 at 6:51 pm

Thanks girl! Yep, I love how my blog has evolved. I love it more and more every day! I wanna marry it, in fact. Ha.

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15 Hanan
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August 4, 2010 at 7:18 pm

I look forward to your posts!!
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16 adriel
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August 7, 2010 at 2:29 am

so… why am i commenting on a post from 5 days ago you ask? well, it’s just been that kind of week. BUT this is one of the starred posts in my reader from one of those bleary-eyed middle-of-the-night feedings… that i’m finally getting back to commenting on now. even if i missed the freshcommentfactor… i still wanna say, great. looking forward to your series. fab, fab, fabulous.

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