Wordless Wednesday: Happy Birthday, Dad.

by melissa on January 25, 2012 · 7 comments

Gerardo Arce: January 25, 1951 – December 11, 2011

I miss you.

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All moms have it. The voice that they use when they talk to their kids.

It may not be an all-the-time voice. I for one never had the goo-goo, ga-ga voice when talking to the Roos as babies. In fact, I try to use a normal voice most of the time.

But that “mom voice” still sneaks out of my mouth on a regular basis.

Must be engrained.

And sometimes I get a little mixed up though with my voices. Like when I’m trying to talk to children and adults at the same time.

Like the other day.

As I walked through the hallway at church, I passed by one of the dads I knew from our church group. I had Little Roo in my hands and it was one of those slow-down-to-say-hi-but-not-stop-since-i-was-in-a-hurry interactions. He didn’t ask me a trick question. He didn’t ask me to juggle five guinea pigs while reading the Bible backwards.

He simply said: “Hi! How’re you doing?”

I did some weird two-part answer.

“Hi!” I replied back with a smile. [normal]

Then I turned to Little Roo and answered his question in my mom voice to my son: “I’m doing good.” [not normal]

I think I even bounced Little Roo up and down as I said it. [definitely NOT normal.]

WTF?

I wasn’t even LOOKING at the guy to answer his question.

My brain got all criss-crossed. Worst thing is, I’m sure it won’t be the last time.

Sigh.

 

 

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It’s been nearly a month since my father passed away. And I’m still blown away by all the people who came together when I needed them. It’s quite striking, really. I mean, you know you have friends. You know you have family. You know you have blog readers. But when something tragic happens, you truly, [...]

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My One Word for 2012

January 2, 2012

“And I’ll find strength in pain And I will change my ways I’ll know my name as it’s called again” – The Cave, Mumford & Sons Few song lyrics have ever spoken to me like those words. But I’ve listened to this song over and over lately as I’ve thought about my life as a [...]

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Tea Collection: Inspired from Around the World

December 30, 2011

With the recent traveling I’ve done lately because of my dad, you may have gathered that I’m half Costa Rican. I’ve traveled there many times throughout my life. What you may not know is that I’ve traveled elsewhere a decent bit in my life too. I spent two months in Spain when I was in [...]

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Capture the Everyday Meme Announcement

December 28, 2011

Why, hello again. I’ve been giving a lot of thought to my life lately since my father died. I’ve thought about the time I spend on things and where I can cut back. Big things. Little things. All sorts of things in between. I have a full post coming up next week about my One [...]

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A Letter to My Dad

December 19, 2011

Thank you all for all the comments, tweets, Facebook messages, phone calls, emails, texts and all else regarding my father. As many of you know, he passed away on December 11, 2011 at the age of 60. I was blessed to spend eight days in Costa Rica earlier this month while he was in the [...]

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Family Emergency

November 26, 2011

If you’ve seen the tweets, you know that my dad is very ill. He moved back to Costa Rica (where he’s from) last fall after living in the U.S. since the 70s. My family and I were 8 hours from home when we found out (on Thanksgiving/my birthday actually) and so we drove home yesterday. [...]

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Capture the Everyday: Something You’re Thankful For

November 22, 2011

Capture the Everyday is about getting you to capture those everyday moments in your life! Each Tuesday, I’ll issue a simple challenge to capture something that’s a part of your daily life. You can post just a picture or add some words to go along with it. You’ll have a week to get it done and [...]

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